Everyone hopes that each aspect of their wedding will execute flawlessly. But no matter how much planning you do, things can be overlooked, and the unexpected may arise. Newlywed brides share their biggest wedding regrets to let those in the planning phase learn from their mistakes!
Chocolate Disaster
"I would not have combined a chocolate fountain at our wedding reception with six flower girls. Thank goodness for Shout Wipes -- they were the only thing that managed to save my dress."
Tip: Regardless of whether a chocolate fountain OR young children are involved in your wedding reception, it's a wise idea to pack a bridal emergency kit. Include items like aspirin, clear nail polish (for stocking runs), and a miniature sewing kit.
Mapquest Fiasco
"I would have driven the route to the reception myself instead of just going by an online map. A lot of people got really lost on the way, and I'm still hearing about it to this day."
Tip: Don't count on online maps, because there may be glitches. If your guests get lost and frustrated en route to your reception site, they will be less enthusiastic and it's likely to show in your photos. Map the route yourself, and have a family member designated for guests to call for direction clarification.
Bustle Complications
"I would have taken pictures of my bustle at my final dress fitting. When I was 'bustling up' before the reception, we couldn't quite figure out how to get it right."
Tip: The arrangement of the bustle can indeed be a tedious task. Bring a member of your bridal party to your final dress fitting so she can learn precisely what needs to be done for the wedding.
Ghastly Lashes
"I would not have worn those ghastly fake eyelashes. They work on some people, but I'm not one of them."
Tip: Be sure to test new beauty products you'll be using for your wedding at least a few times before the big day. You don't want to run into an "unexpected" look and loathe all your wedding photographs as a result.
Wedding Party Selection
"I wouldn't have jumped so quickly to choose my bridal party. I would have taken more time and given it more thought since I hurt quite a few people in the process. I realize now that out of sheer excitement, I hastily selected the people who were closest to me at that time, neglecting the people that were with me for many years before."
Tip: Give it some time and thought before jumping to contact those you wish to include in your wedding party. There could be conflicts between those whom you'd like to ask, and those who anticipate that they'll be asked. Identify those potential conflicts before you make any hasty decisions. Most times, there will be at least some damage control to be done, since it's impossible to include everyone in your life in your wedding party. But you'll feel much better knowing you put in lots of consideration.
DON'T Do-It-Yourself
"We wouldn't have done DIY invitations. The amount of money we saved just wasn't worth the time it took us to make them."
Tip: Make sure you understand the nature of the project and what to expect of the result before taking on something that you ultimately may not wish to finish.
Day-of Coordinator
"I would have hired a day-of coordinator. It got irritating when people would ask questions like, 'Where should I put the extra programs?' after the ceremony."
Tip: You shouldn't have to be in charge of mindless details on the day of your wedding. Hiring day-of help will let you enjoy the individual moments of the day rather than answering questions and dodging obstacles. Being able to relax and enjoy the day will be worth the cost.
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